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By George Ozalla
Human tendency to lament over circumstances, situations, and outcomes that do not go our way is a natural phenomenon. We often find ourselves caught up in thoughts of what could have been, what should have been, or what we wish were different. Excessive lamentation can become a significant obstacle to progress and happiness. A bird that sits on a branch, worrying about the branch breaking, will never fly. When we dwell on our misfortunes or past regrets, it does not change the outcome. It leads to a cycle of negativity, preventing us from moving forward and embracing new opportunities. We become stuck in the past, replaying what went wrong, and wondering what could have been. This mindset can lead to feelings of hopelessness, anxiety, and depression, making it even harder to achieve our goals. Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful, reminds us that our lamentations are often fueled by the negative influences of others or our own self-pity.
Self-pity is a destructive habit that can consume us if we let it. When we play the victim, we tend to blame the system, circumstances, or others for our problems. However, we often forget that we are all part of the system in one way or another. Each of us has our own sphere of influence, authority, or power, no matter how small it may seem. It is in these moments that our true character is revealed. Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Money getting into the wrong hand is also a big problem. When given the opportunity, some individuals become disasters, unleashing their inner beast showcasing but hunger, anger and frustrations as those who have never seen money. It is astonishing how those we have assisted or supported in the past can turn against us with hearts full of vile, pretense, and wickedness.
True test of human character lies in how we wield power, use money, and influence. When men and women are given money and authority, their true nature is often instantly revealed. The beast that lay dormant begins to emerge, and their actions become guided by detestable self-interest rather than the greater good and for some their minds are completely lost. This is why it is essential to remain humble and grounded, recognizing that our position or wealth is not the ultimate measure of our worth but our composure in the face of power and wealth.
Mahatma Gandhi’s words echo the truth that the world has enough to meet everyone’s need, but not enough for everyone’s greed. When we are fixated with the thought that our financial needs are greater than that of those we do business with and have the urge to cheat or embezzle money, such financial problems will continue to increase. Moreover, it leaves one more empty with multiple question marks or red flags. This mindset perpetuates a cycle of distrust and dishonesty, certainly leading to our own detriment. It is unfortunate that our quest for collective pursuit of wealth and power often leads to exploitation and causing others to suffer.
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If we all focused on doing good deeds, no matter how small they may seem, aggregated little acts of kindness, compassion, and generosity from everyone can create a ripple effect of positivity. Many hands make light work. When we work together towards a common goal, we can achieve great things. It is therefore imperative to strive to be the change we want to see in the world. We must take action, work towards creating a better world for all, and in doing so, we shall find true fulfillment and purpose. Let us not forget that our actions have consequences, and we must live in harmony with nature and each other, focusing on the greater good, we can create and a world that is more just, compassionate, and equitable.
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